Accepting new clients16+ years experience

Cultivate courage.
Conquer anxiety.

Evidence-based therapy for men navigating anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, and the pressure to have it all figured out. A space to do the real work — on your terms.

Licensed in CA & TX100% telehealth

Does this sound familiar?

If any of these hit home, you're not broken — and you're not alone. These are the exact struggles I help men work through every day.

You're stressed, irritable, or overwhelmed — and you can't pinpoint why
You feel like you're going through the motions but not actually living
Anxiety runs in the background of everything you do — holding you back from living life on your terms
Your relationship feels disconnected and you don't know how to fix it
The pressures of fatherhood are crushing — and no one told you it would feel like this
You've been told to "man up" so many times you've stopped asking for help
You've tried to kick a habit or addiction and it hasn't stuck
You know something needs to change, but you don't know where to start
Let's Talk — Text to Book a Free Consult

15-20 minute call. No pressure. No commitment.

How I Help

Real problems deserve real solutions

Anxiety & Mood

Racing thoughts. Restless nights. Anger, irritability, and resentment bubbling under the surface. That constant knot in your stomach that never fully goes away.

We'll get to the root of your anxiety or depression — not just manage the symptoms — using evidence-based approaches like TEAM-CBT that create lasting change.

Relationship Issues

You feel disconnected from your partner. Arguments go nowhere. Emotional walls keep going up.

Learn to communicate what you actually feel, repair trust, and build the kind of partnership you both deserve.

Fatherhood & Identity

The weight of fatherhood. Losing yourself. Feeling like you should have it figured out by now.

Navigate the biggest role shift of your life with clarity, confidence, and zero judgment.

Life Transitions & Stress

Career shifts. Moves. Divorce. Something changed and now nothing feels right.

Make sense of where you are, grieve what you've lost, and build a path forward that actually fits who you're becoming.

Men's Mental Health

You've been conditioned to push through. But the pressure is real — and it's building.

A space built for men to actually talk, process, and grow. No toxic positivity. No clichés. Just real work.

Out-of-Control Behaviors

Habits you can't seem to stop. Pornography, substance use, or other compulsive behaviors. Shame you carry in silence. A cycle that feels impossible to break.

Confidential, non-judgmental support using the out-of-control sexual behavior (OCSB) framework — not the addiction model — to help you regain control and build a healthier relationship with yourself.

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Meet Dr. Ori — 1 min intro

About Dr. Ori

A therapist who gets it — because he's lived it too.

I'm a husband, a father of a young son, and a guy who trains hard at the gym because I know how much my body and mind need it. I understand the pressure men face — to perform, to provide, to have everything figured out — because I navigate those same expectations every day.

My job isn't to tell you what to do. It's to create a space where you can finally be honest about what you're carrying, and then give you the tools to actually do something about it. I use evidence-based methods like TEAM-CBT because I believe in approaches backed by science — including polyvagal theory, attachment research, and experiential techniques — not just talk.

When clients get on the phone with me for a consultation, they almost always decide to work together. That's not a sales pitch — it's because by that point, they've been struggling alone for years and finally feel the relief that comes with having someone on their team to help figure things out and make a real change.

16+ years in practice
PsyD · Alliant International University
Evidence-based approaches
Licensed in California & Texas
TEAM-CBTMindfulness-BasedPolyvagal-InformedAttachment-FocusedExperiential
See If We're a Good Fit

Getting Started

Three steps to feeling like yourself again

Step 01

Book a Free Consultation

Send a text and we'll set up a relaxed 15-20 minute call to talk about what you're going through and whether we're a good fit. No pressure. No commitment.

Step 02

Start Therapy on Your Terms

We'll build a plan tailored specifically to you — your goals, your pace, your life. 50-minute sessions, fully virtual, with no session caps or outside interference.

Step 03

Build the Life You Want

With evidence-based tools and real accountability, you'll move from surviving to actually thriving — in your relationships, your career, and yourself.

Peer Endorsements

What other professionals say

Endorsements from licensed clinicians who know Dr. Ori's work firsthand.

Dr. Lidor is one of a kind! He is a compassionate and welcoming clinician. Highly recommend and trust his expertise.

Micaela Magazzu-Alaman

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

Dr. Lidor is a skilled, focused, and attuned psychologist. Through collaboration on the same consultation team, I have seen his work first hand, and can attest to his dedication and knowledge of Men's Mental Health. As a therapist, I highly recommend him.

Tamara Sharifov

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Dr. Ori is a thoughtful and dedicated therapist with a strong commitment to men's mental health. He brings warmth, integrity, and intention to his work as a therapist. He offers a trustworthy, nonjudgmental environment for teens and adults alike.

Dr. Panicha McGuire

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, RPT, PsyD

Source: Psychology Today

FAQ

Questions you might have

The first step is a free 15-20 minute consultation call where we just talk. No intake forms, no jargon — just a real conversation about what you're dealing with and whether I'm the right fit. If we decide to work together, sessions are 50 minutes, fully virtual, and completely confidential.

Individual sessions are $289 for 50 minutes. Private-pay clients get the most flexible, personalized experience — no session limits, no required diagnoses, and complete privacy. Your therapy stays between us, period. Rates increase by 8% annually, so locking in now gets you the best value.

Insurance companies require a clinical diagnosis on your permanent medical record, cap the number of sessions, and can dictate what kind of treatment you receive. With private pay, you get full control — we work on your terms, at your pace, with zero outside interference. It's a cleaner, more confidential experience that lets us focus entirely on results.

You don't have to be in crisis to benefit from therapy. Most of the men I work with are high-functioning — they're holding it together on the outside but know something needs to shift. If that resonates, you're exactly who I help.

I am paneled with Aetna and United Healthcare. If you carry one of these plans, you may be eligible for coverage. I also see private-pay clients who prefer the flexibility and privacy that comes with paying out of pocket. We'll figure out the best option during your free consultation.

TEAM-CBT is an evidence-based therapy approach developed by Dr. David Burns (author of Feeling Good). It's structured, collaborative, and results-oriented. We don't just talk about your problems — we use specific tools and techniques to create real, lasting change.

Polyvagal-informed therapy draws on the science of how your nervous system responds to stress and safety. It helps you understand why your body reacts the way it does — fight, flight, freeze, or shutdown — and gives you tools to regulate and feel more grounded in everyday life.

Attachment-focused therapy explores how your earliest relationships shaped the way you connect with others today. It helps you understand patterns in your relationships — why you pull away, people-please, or struggle to feel seen — and build healthier, more secure connections.

Unlike the traditional addiction model, the out-of-control sexual behavior (OCSB) framework views compulsive behaviors — like pornography use, substance use, or other habits — through a lens of regulation rather than disease. It's a non-shaming, evidence-informed approach that helps you understand the underlying drivers and regain control of your choices.

My specialty is men's mental health, and the majority of my clients are men. However, I also work with teens and women who feel that a male therapist would be the right fit for what they're working through. All sessions are individual — I do not offer couples or family therapy.

I'm licensed in both California and Texas and offer telehealth sessions across both states. All sessions are fully virtual, so you can connect from wherever you're most comfortable and have privacy.

It depends entirely on you and your goals. Some clients see meaningful shifts in a few sessions. Others choose to do deeper, longer-term work. There's no minimum commitment — we go at your pace.

The hardest part is
reaching out.

You've already done the hard work of recognizing something needs to change. A 15-minute conversation is all it takes to find out if we're the right fit.

Text (858) 746-9947Or call directly

Free consultation · No commitment · Completely confidential

Email: info@drorilidor.comLicensed in CA & TX · Paneled with Aetna & United Healthcare